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Post by Help on Aug 20, 2017 10:58:00 GMT
Does anyone else feel like, a sense of guilt when they do physical things with their partner (like beyond 2nd base?)
I don't know how to move past it, but I just feel so guilty like what would my parents think of me (they don't know about him)
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Post by Guest on Aug 20, 2017 11:06:47 GMT
I don't feel guilty about doing anything sexually because it's my right and my body, and I don't think you should feel guilt for making a choice of what you want to do with your own body. No one has a right to make you feel guilty
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Post by Help on Aug 20, 2017 11:55:46 GMT
I don't feel guilty about doing anything sexually because it's my right and my body, and I don't think you should feel guilt for making a choice of what you want to do with your own body. No one has a right to make you feel guilty Thank you so much |
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Post by smrn on Aug 20, 2017 18:31:51 GMT
I used to feel really guilty about getting intimate with my partner. On top of that, the intense fear and anxiety and worry of not getting pregnant came with it. All of it just makes something really fun and beuatiful like intimacy a shit experience. I get it man. but honestly Ive realized if we did everything in our life to make our parents happy and in agreement with our culture our lives would be miserable and in the dumps. It takes a while to get to this point of understanding. But you just sort of get over it one day that Im not gonna let a regressive as ideology ruin something i wanna enjoy. In terms of the pregnancy thing, i found that as soon as i went on birth control and the fear of pregnancy was gone, i was able to enjoy and accept it more. I hope this helps. Just give yourself time, trust me.
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Post by the afghan on Aug 23, 2017 7:47:06 GMT
i think it depends on why you feel guilty. if you feel guilty because of religious reasons, then i think you should seek to refrain from the sexual activities and ask for forgiveness. but if that's because that is why YOU feel guilty, not because our culture breeds this idea of us going to hell with a woman even glances at a man.
if you feel guilty because of what our cultural expectations are of women (to remain a virgin until marriage, etc.) then i can only say that the feeling goes away. our bodies are our own and we should only engage in what we are comfortable with. to hell with societal expectations that women are to remain without any sexual emotions or should be muted in regards to their sexual feelings and their sexuality.
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