Post by brown girl on Jul 22, 2019 23:42:32 GMT
i am a woman in my mid 20s and last fall i went on a date with a descent looking Indian guy . we met twice and on our second date we spent the night together. i was quiet not sure about him so i was going back and forth between my new formed emotions towards him .on the third meeting we were already very close , didn't have sex but was a physical closure of some sort . after that we didn't meet for few days and was already arguing over something over text. so two days later a friend of mine tells me that this guy is showing my texts to other white girls he works with (my roommate and that guy works in the same place ) and there is already a rumor about we two (which was not a problem for me ) but in that sharing he shared some information that made me look like a desperate attention seeker and someone who is so madly in love with him (which again is not correct ) . i then called him and confronted him everything but this guy has balls to blame everything on me saying "its everything you want from me, not me" he then cut off my phone saying we are done when there was nothing to begin with . we were not even a couple in the first place . it ended so bad because mostly everyone i knew or he worked with knew about it. i was sad regretted my decision of meeting him and moved on with my life but but it doesn't end here , two days before a very good friend of mine (Indian male) unintentionally spills out the very story of the night i was with this Indian guy i went on a date with . with look of shock and horror and confusion i further asked him how he knows about it and then he said it was not only him but half of the Indian guy in the city where i live in knows about the every detail that happened that night . when i heard this i went week on my knees tears flowing from my eyes because that was very intimately private things i shared with him . i do not know that very moment when i heard this i felt like i was living a character of a movie where a woman is victimized mentally because of her sexual actions .right now there is nothing much i can do than to be strong and move on once again. men bragging culture bout their private or sexual life is so high it can almost lead a person to commit a suicide and which needs to be addressed .maybe its not me but i am sure there are many silent sufferers and as they say mind has the most dark scars .i am not sure if i delivered my problem correctly but would like to hear from other strong women on this behalf.