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Post by Anon on Aug 21, 2017 13:27:47 GMT
Hi there, atm I'm 17 years old and I'm quite mature and look 20 yrs old! I met this guy last year in October at the Diwali mela, it's going to be a year soon for us! Everything is good with us, there's just one thing! He's 23 turning 24 soon! We have a 6/7 years age gap. It doesn't really matter to me anymore because it never seems like it when I'm with him! And we're not on completely different life stages! It's just like I can't go to parties and clubbing with him! I got to know him and didn't even do anything until 7 months! We're not dating dating but we're together as putting a label or title stresses the Bond in my opinion. My parents are very open minded and I've never faced any of the brown girl problems girl have faced luckily! My parents both come from different ethnic parts in India and had a love marriage, in my opinion they won't get really mad will just have to adapt to the fact once I tell them! Please be respectful, can I please have your opinions?
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haseena
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Post by haseena on Aug 21, 2017 22:56:49 GMT
Just a quick question, why do you want to tell your parents? Are you both planning to take the big step and commit to each other? If I were you, I would take things slow coming from a brown family myself I would only introduce the guy that I was going to marry to my parents not every guy I ever dated - if that makes sense? Speak to your partner and see how he feels about telling your parents. If you want to be open and honest with your parents you should do what you think is best and tell them for your own comfort Your heart knows best
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Post by shanoodidi on Aug 19, 2018 9:18:04 GMT
Introducing to parents is quite a serious step. If you are sure of him, then go ahead. You mentioned that your parents are quite the chill, so i think its cool then.
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